This game should result, for the first time, in honest communication about what is going on between them. It should also lead to a revival of sexual interest and passion.

Variation: A variation of “Psycho Surprise” has the “psycho” spouse slide into bed some night wearing a monster face or witch mask—and nothing else. The “psycho” laughs maniacally and grabs and kisses the spouse (with the mask still in place). When the passive asks, “What are you doing?” the psycho spouse does not reply, but simply continues embracing and kissing the passive (thus giving the passive a dose of his or her own medicine). Again, this may provoke an angry response, discussion, or wild love-making.

Caution: “Psycho Surprise” should not be played by older couples, or by anyone with a history of heart trouble, strokes, or the like. And it should only be used in connection with ongoing couples therapy, under the supervision of a psychotherapist. In some cases, for caution’s sake, the “psycho” spouse may warn the passive spouse that a shower surprise might be in the offing at some point in the future—just to play it safe.

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